Finger Pointing

I guess if one has blog-hopped enough, it would be pretty impossible to miss Tuls's recent entry which generated some kind of "comment-war", last i saw was 40+ but i am sure it grew on.

Blog is basically some online diary, for a detail wiki definition you may actually checkout Takashi latest entry (coincidentally Takashi wrote on this too, like a thousand word essay, since he is one of those being accused =p ) In that sense, everyone has the right to write whatever they believe in, which really goes without saying.

This is not so much about spreading the right ideology or a proper way to lead a gay life, or healthy life. Its a blog, not a what-u-shud-do-as-a-gay educational site. The first thought that came to my mind when I read about the comment that started all it was, nope, it doesnt make sense. Simply because i believe if a person actually reads a blog, he probably shud have read enough of other stuffs to tell wat's right and wat's wrong. Just a simple example, there are many bloggers who talk about their own healthy relationship lifestyle, why doesnt that gives an impression of looking for a proper bf and not fooling around? It is merely a personal choice if u ask me, one own lust, desire, and his own mentality. (Then again, i am not saying the poor kid ask for what happened, obviously he has been badly taken advantage of... but i dun think its so much because of what blogger writes either)

And if blogger were to blame for causing that kind of gay lifestyle, then the author and producer of "Sex and the City" shud be hanged cause the book not only talk openly about random sex, but drugs, sex trade for money and even relate them to luxurious life. Guilty?