After a usual conversation, who is the one that usually hangs up? The one who made the call? cause it is on his bill? Well maybe, but lets say the couple is slightly beyond this $$ minded. So who? The one who is more task-oriented, organized? well again, this is about personality, where some people are indeed very organized and efficient, like okay, I have called and spoken to my dear, so item checked and next is to brush my teeth. Fair enough, these are probably one of those who will always hang up first, cause they don't like to waste time and their life is always full of unfinished tasks and time is always a luxury to them. Of course there are other special cases like one is in a hurry, or one is extremely tired OR... cant wait to watch animation.(Disclaimer: Any resemblance to real person or incident or personal experience is purely coincidental.)
I cant help but notice that apart from the above mention "exceptions" the one who usually hangs up in a conversation is the one who is loved more. Or in another words, the one who hold on to the phone beside the ear and waits till the click sound that indicates the other has hang up, is typically the one who puts more into the relationship or he simply love the other person more. Well, very much personal experience.. The feeling is simply: "I just want to make sure he has nothing else to tell me." Its just the affection to the other person, the attachment and the fondness for your love ones.
But.. i guess that's the part one would enjoy, afterall the whole point of being young, being silly, being romantic... But if you are the one who always hangs up, gives this a little thought and maybe.. be the one who hang on once in a while? He probably would be really surprise and delighted..
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Thought of using Lady Gaga's Telephone, but it's just really not my style..
"But it's time to face the truth, I will never be with you..."
I never realize till recently the last 2 lines of this song is so touching...
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To me, I can't recall who hang up in our conversation first as we speak and talk a lot in a day...I tends to agree, those who hang on longer, is the one who loves more, but can't generalize. Don't forget to say 'Love You' before the line is cut...this is essential. Short of this will make the conversation imperfect.
ReplyDeleteI have this fear that I will somehow be that person I dread to be - the one who puts and love more but somehow looking back, it's very much a personal trait. If one has chosen to do that, there's nothing else to do but hope that it's appreciated. Hence yes, I like your part on the show appreciation from time to time.
ReplyDelete"Zatch Bell" must die!
ReplyDeleteYou still lou gai about that ah? LOL
ReplyDeleteSky, u seem to be the romantic kind of bf.. so sweet..
ReplyDeletehey thompson, first time seeing u here.. welcome! and yea, u said it right, we "choose" to be that, can only hope it is appreciated.. else i guess we have learn to have a little bit of dignity and be the one to move on..
To couple.. what r u guys talking about?? i hav no idea at all.. *innocent*
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