Not an uncommon question to get (or we might be the one asking) if meeting people online is the way we get to know gay friends.
We always have our fantasy of a guy who has a looks, build, charm that satisfy our physical fantasy, say we call them Handsome. But apart from that, there is also another kind of quality we seek which is the personality that loves you, adores you, kind, protective and most importantly understands you, the kind of ideal Prince guys. And just a note, looks are subjectives, so is the personality, I am just saying in general, which means everyone has a different image of their Handsome and Prince.
In our dream of course we always want both, which is a Handsome Prince. But we know Handsome Prince is more like the story where a person is asked to picked a big rock from a field and keep believing there will be bigger one in front until he reaches the other end of it EMPTY-HANDED.
So in reality, if we are lucky, we probably might end up with one, either the Handsome or the Prince. Handsome, meaning we adores them (mostly because of the look), prince of course the other way round. Which do you think is more important? One that your heart tells you that you will love him and stay loyal to him or the other that you know very well that you enjoy his sincerity and you know he is reliable, except your heart probably will sway from time to time another Handsome comes by your life until one day, maybe you are truly convinced you are happy with your Prince. (Is that even possible?)
It is totally a problem of being vain and being real, and your heart struggling to convinced yourself that you knew one is better than the other, but which one?
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I don't understand what are the differences between the handsome and the prince? The prince can be handsome too...and also real and vain...I'm vain but I am also real...or you have other hidden meaning that I didn't manage to spot out...?
ReplyDeleteActually sky, I was just playing with words here.. Dun take their literal meaning, I am just using Handsome to represent people u met with looks u dream of, and Prince for people who has the personality or characteristic that you desire. and yup, "Handsome Prince" means u get a person with BOTH looks and personality PERFECT 100% bf... but how often, can one meet a 100% bf that meets all your expectations and fantasy?
ReplyDeleteNow I know...if you are lucky enough you may find your Handsome Charming Prince, and there are quite some lucky ones in the world and I hope Kidz to be one.
ReplyDeleteso true... I have a prince now... And from time to time I ogle at handsome men. LOL...
ReplyDeleteA Prince can be someone you hold till old age but Handsome can only last you a few years... sometimes it's a matter of 'need', if you need a person to 'decorate' your life or a person to 'accompany' your life.
ReplyDeleteAs long as you love him, and he loves you... then it's already as perfect as it gets.
ReplyDeleteYeah... actually u need a huge amount of luck to even net a prince. People always hope to get a handsome prince though... wish us all the best of luck lolx. but yeah agree with william
ReplyDeleteSky, thank you! And both of you are lucky, cause u have found each other's Handsome Prince.. =)
ReplyDeleteBravebear, I guess as long as ur hearts doesn't drift, that's acceptable ;)
Pikey, nice description, but again, being Handsome doesn't necessary means the best looking, I simply mean the kind of guys that is ur "type" in appearance... but its interesting u put it as "deco" and a person as "company"
William Zhai, beauty in the eyes of beholder, indeed, be it the heart or the facade.. =)
Hi Vincent! welcome.. yea, wish us all the best, it doesn't have to be the best, as long as it is perfect in our own heart.. right?
though.. our heart can gets greedy at times.. sigh.. vain..