Maybe i am not that good at guessing what someone else is thinking, or maybe I simply went through quite a few bad experience that I no longer dare to trust my own feelings. Thus whenever I feel interested in a guy, I would try to seek more signs. Which actually sometimes when I think back, yea, it seems kinda blunt and tactless to be "asking" and it kinda spoil the feeling of something that maybe growing... But on the other hand, I am still kinda scare of the reading the wrong sign, thinking it is, putting more feelings and expectations but turn out someday u get lesser calls or messages from him and when you ask he says he is not into it...
How can you tell if someone is keen on you? and not just being friendly?? Are there some general guidelines? Like if he try to kiss you, or if he didn't what does that says? or if he doesn't reply your message that often... but yet sometimes he would send something friendly or lovely? How does all these signs suppose to be interpreted? (okay, i sound totally like some 13 y/o falling in love and asking stupid questions, this is ridiculous..)
Don't mistake sexual advances as signs that he is interested to have a relationship with you...
ReplyDeleteStep back, assess your feelings and let time run for awhile and see how things is progressing before making a commitment.
ReplyDeleteWill, sometimes thats just confusing...
ReplyDeletepikey...actually it is more of how the other feels that i am confuse, i mean whether thats a sign he is interested? or maybe just being friendly... sometimes i just cannot tell apart..