The perfect person is always too good to be true. But still we always talk about the perfect person for ourselves. I guess the keyword here is "self", we judge by our own standards...
Many times in a relationship, I cant help but notice a lot of people (probably including my very own) is probably not the perfect match. How easily your partner would sway, how very often he has doubt, how very often he doesn't feel guilty telling you he is annoyed by you? Probably in their thought it is like, well he is not too bad, kinda cute, or has a good build, or has a good careeer... all these factors comes in and make us accomodate who he is. But it is often so very easy that accomodating leads to loosing the patient and coolness. Simply because the other person is not the perfect one, to some extent, he probably feels indifferent about loosing the other...
I always believe that ff you really like someone, you would instinctively wants to protect him. On the other hand, if you dun have that feeling, it is probably a more kind act, to simply let him go than torturing a nice person who is worth more love. For you for the other...
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I made my choice, even till this day, it is probably still for the better...
We might not be realizing promises we made together, but at least 2 other person in this world has the chance of realizing it with us.. right? ~說好的幸福呢
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No one is perfect...if that person is alright,you are comfortable with him...and treats you well...then just accommodate him for his shortcoming. God knows they do the same for us...
ReplyDeleteNothing is perfect, even he is imperfect, he is perfect in my eyes.
ReplyDeleteDon't think too much. You made the right choice.
ReplyDeleteThanks Guys... actually i just had a little feeling on certain times, a person find the other person "not too bad" and keep on holding on but never really give whole heartedly to the other, and always sway easily... it feels like he is just accomodating reluctantly or waiting for the right one.. while the other is in love blindly and holding on to empty hopes...
ReplyDeleteWe might not be realizing promises we made together, but at least 2 other person in this world has the chance of realizing it with us.. right?
ReplyDeletelying to yourself!!!!1
If it werent meant to be, wats the point of holding on to promise that will nvr be realized? why not let each other go and move on to someone who is of better fit?
ReplyDeleteIts a game of fate, you may not know if the next one is the right one but at least at this very moment you know very well he is not... give each other a chance to meet the one who can realize the promise..