It's about wanting to see u smile, ain't it?

"It's about both making an effort.. "

I was typing till this point, the remaining part is " an effort to stay together to compromise", but then backspaced and retype

"It's about meeting the right person, who wants to see you happy and want to make an effort to be together, to compromise and to keep each other company.."

It started off as a conversation with a net friend i met recently, he is local and has a bf from thailand. Then our conversation enter into gay love and how appearance is the first factor most of the time, then comes to knowing the people and then personality coming in the picture..

Actually, for someone who never really "succeeded" in a relationship, i am not convinced how right or wrong my points are, pretty much just a feeling. BUt somehow at least it makes me realize, it is not as simple as making effort to compromise, it will have to have another prerequisite which is the other has the intention to want to be with u, or simply, he loves u... then it comes into bridging the difference and compromising on each other's wants and needs.. but the desire to keep each other happy is a first factor..

This song name, caught my attention. 認錯 (ren chuo) - admitting a mistake

Think about it, if the other person cares, how much of right/wrong is important, or is it more important to know the other is sad and actually neither wants to see each other is sad and try to make up for it for saying "sorry" ?

Probably I should have seen it, no matter how upset I was, it is never a "Sorry" but rather shutting of phone calls and no replies despite the anxiety and worries shown... shud have seen it coming..

-contest version, u may want to fast forward but it is very touching... a story of her own...