Betrayal

On many occasions, i felt some of my colleagues are really negative in their thinking. They think the worse of someone they knew, they look at the negative side of things when someone.. eg. the boss say something ambiguos.. like the boss ask how long ur training will be? they say the boss is complaining their training is too long and the budget is tight, yea well, the next thing he has resigned, as if he cares bout the budget?

I on the other hand seems to like to think the good side, which i remember really pissed my ex off once, tat he got so mad and say why are u finding reason for XXX ... as something happened and it just shows that sometimes there is no harm to take in a little more possibility of people, cause true enuf, not everybody is like what u see.. and not everybody is an angel..

I guess in blogs we have to be anonymous.. so here goes,

T, D and I are best friends when we first joined.. hangout together most of the time and sit near each other... and then there came the admin assistant J whom we also had a good time talking to.

Soon, J was to have her baby delivered but due to her foreigner status, things were difficult for her and she loan money around, some from me but a huge amount from D, actually through his credit card. At that point, D has doubt because the amount was huge, and after the birth, she delayed her payment a few times. So it drag on...

Then it came to a time where we were joining a different team, thus new sittings and different work hour set us apart. I still keep in close touch with T. As for D, he has been doing something that was rather annoying and people in the company somehow grew to dislike him, T tried to advice him but he took no notice. So we talked lesser and lesser.

Until recently, D ask us to chat again, cause he had problem with collecting money from J. SO T and I spend a evening listening to D, talking and giving him advice. It seems things have been okay and we were talking like old days. Then... few days later, D happily told us that J help him got SIA for his flight to US instead of the US airline, and also J help him speed up his process to get his AMEX card much before anyone else. So he was happily believing J is helping him a lot. And he doesn't mind J delayed her repayment again anymore.

And then, yesterday, when T who was also going to the US trip was checking the nth time with J if her AMEX card is ready, J say is in the process, which could mean anything and they are flying off this friday. So T called up herself to AMEX to check and D was there. T was told they could have collected themselves if it is really urgent. The next thing T saw was J sending her mails telling her she is not following the right process and she shouldn't have called up AMEX. T hasn't even done anything. Guess who is the big mouth?

D obviously was returning the favour to J, or maybe trying to strenghtening their "bonds" by sharing their little secrets. I was totally furious when T told me this, how could D has sell out his best friend ( or at least the remaining friend who is still willing to talk to him when everyone else is ignoring him.. ) for exchange for a SIA flight... Sometimes, I always thought he is nice and even if he does selfish things, he meant no harm to others, but this time round, selling out your best friend, I really could not see myself ever trusting him again...

Traitor.. Sometimes, it is really worth to think a little bad of someone, you just never can be too careful...