Different people, One Language

I woke up yesterday morning to realize I had a message from a friend the previous night for a chat, but i was asleep. Realize the next day that he has a problem with his girlfriend.

Spend a dinner catching up and listening to his story. Then in between I was sharing my own story... The weird thing, both stories actually has their similarities. And my friend says that it seems in relationships problems are the same. In a way, I guess when problem arise, you can say 2 person have their differences, different in expectations and each believing they are right, from this point, yes, in general, that's how we all fall in and out of love. We start to admire someone, get charmed by his manner, his apperance, his humour... Then we get together, we start to know more about each other. Now the cruel part is when u see more of what you don't like. The next step? To try to tolerate, if it works, you love him a lot you go on, if it doesn't, go to step "the-end". Even sometimes you might think you are willing to accept him as he is, but after soemtime, you might find urself enduring in pain, living a life you dont really want and grudging.. then? Go to step "the-end"

It was a nice chat, I wasn't so much as giving advice.. but i guess just sharing our experience, and i learn to see my own relationship or think about it from a different perspective.. it is surprising how a straight and a gay guy can chat so freely... I am really starting to like this friend more and more (in a friendly way of course).

Straight, Gay, we all need love, we all seek love. We all get trapped by love, we laugh, we cry, we suffer from the pain, we get over and start again. I guess that's because we are all emotional beings, though we are different, we still speak the same language, language of LOVE..