This is again superficial and shallow... but... in my own defense, there is really no feel for it.. nor sparks.
Once again, it just prooves meeting friends online is a difficult thing.. the baseline is you must not hate each other when u first see in real.. but to really get into something, it requires both to "see" something they fancy on the other.. and i really mean the word see, cause for a start, it always seems u need to be attracted to something on the other person.. i am not saying that personalities and charactweristics dun count.. but generally the first thing always seems to be appearance. Okay, its superficial..
Sometimes even i feel bad when the feeling of talking to someone changed after u have seen him in real.. cause i have experienced that myself and i know it is not pleasant, in fact i know it hurts my own feeling.. my own confidence a lot.. but when it happens the other way round, i feel that i know the feeling is not right, there wont be anythig on going so why shudn't i be frank right? .. so somehow i feel i can understand why others is doing it to me.. cause the expectations was different.. and u really cannot alter ur own feeling..
However one party is still hurt in these situations... and no matter how valid a reason is.. it somehow feels bad.. and i am sure thats when bad karma must be accumulated and hit back the next time.. =(
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The first time I met my BF, there were no expectations. We did not know how each other looked like. I dunno whether he found me cute or not on first glance (I hope he did), but as the months went by, we were attracted to each other. But I guess at that point onwards, looks were just of minor importance.
ReplyDeleteHmm, I guess the things is that people act differently when they are hidden behind a computer screen and chatting. But when you meet up, they could be a completely different person... and thats when it gets complicated.
ReplyDeleteoh lidat ah. aisay... no worry lar. i duno me the buaya darat u wan to see onot. bwuahaha... isit u who call me n sms me ah?
ReplyDeleteErm... this is so true,ppl always think that ur persona is being reflected by ur online self but actually the online self is just a part of urself
ReplyDeleteWill... I guess u are right there.. if you started with no expectations, and eventually fall for each other because of who he really is... that's probably what you truely call love..
ReplyDeleteHiya Lucas.. that's true.. people do act different, especially when you have good impression of someone and tries to impress, but turn out it wasn't like your expectation and things changes.. that's the sad part..
Mr.K.. haha buaya darat.. sounds scary =p .. nope.. i didn't call you leh..
Ichi well said... part of ourselves... and not to mention the see-the-real-person effect..