Love?

Reading comments on youtube clip is one of things I enjoy doing a lot. For one, they kinda provide a lot of "extra" gossip about the celebrities, and other times, it is good to see how others look at things.

No matter how "clever" a person is, he is still looking at the world from 1 person's point of view. Which is why I like the chinese teaching of being humble and being open to other's people views, cause they have their own experience and they could have seen things we never knew. Thus I like reading blogs and comments and whatsover by others. (One thign about the locals here is they are far too confident to be open minded. Most of the time, they just feel they are the smartest and never really make an effort to "listen".. k, i admit, i am complaining again cause i hate this a lot)

Gosh, i always type a whole chunk of unrelated stuffs until i get into my point. Love? I was listening to Fish Leong (Diva of love songs from our country, she really deserves it), many people actually comment by writing their own love stories, mostly sad stories of course.. then I saw someone wrote this:

"愛.....有多少人懂..."

He is right, how many understand what this word love is? One of the words we use often, especially the caucasians, "I love you" is as common as Hi, Bye, Thank you. But give it a thought, what do we mean when we say we love someone? What do we "expect" from someone we love, do we still love them with the expectation? Is there really self-less love? how come we dun mind hurting the people we love. How can we bear to see the people who we love or love us shed tears in front, or behind of us. How can we not be determined to make sure our love ones always carry a smile on his face?

Do you love someone? Or should it be you want to love someone? How should it start?

I haven't seen, or read or learnt enough to answer this questions. I never meant to answer it anyway, but just some random thoughts from that comment. But at least i know I have the courage to persue what i want... And i know i wont regret because I tried my best everytime... If you think u deserve to enjoy love, why hesitate?

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Indeed, when you miss someone, it is painful, very very painful... But it will get numb, and slowly it will fade away... Just like wound are bound to recover, it is just a matter of time, but the scar will always be there... But it will never be painful again.. =)

So this pain is bound to recover... 會呼吸的痛